Particularly how it is different from the point up until consummation and how it changes. Much of what is taught is in the form of process and it would help a lot to understand relationship game in those same terms, which i'm sure is probably mostly the same but in different order or amounts etc.
Keep up the great work! The biggest shift is in the biggest question about a man being answered for a woman: he shifts from an unknown quantity to a known one, and this is used to recast him along a number of different lines.
In today's article, we'll explore what the shifts women make in their attitudes towards men are after sex, and what those lines are that they recast men along. A man and a woman never achieve complete comfort with each other if they haven't been intimate. Until the man has penetrated the woman in sexual intercourse, there's always at least a slight awareness of one's own curiosity, and of the other individual's likely curiosity too. There's also the unanswered question of, "What is this other person really like in bed?
Yet, even in those most comfortable of friendships, beneath the surface, those thoughts still linger What if? Sex and Power Balances Penetration changes the dynamic between man and woman; as we talked about in " Women and Drama ", the commencement of sexual intimacy is one of the two key balance of power shifts in a relationship: Prior to sex, the woman holds the power in the relationship When sex occurs, the woman submits to the man, and the man gains power With an honest pledge of complete fidelity, the man submits to the woman, and the woman regains power There are things either side can do to lessen the power differential between the other individual and him or herself.
Before intimacy, the man can rely on his fundamentals and game to get women chasing after him, putting him in something closer to equal footing, though usually still not quite on it, because he still must run things carefully and correctly in order to win the woman, still must be the aggressor in commencing sex most of the time, and must still break through women's resistance to it to get there.
