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Reactions ranged from surprise and congratulations to absolute judgement and condemnation. The judgement arose from the allegation that the beauty queen is unwed, and therefore the child was conceived out of wedlock. I took strong exception to this. When did we all find our moral compasses? I have a hard time understanding how we came to the conclusion that Yendi is a slut when so many of us were born out of wedlock.
What does that say about our mothers? One of my followers made the point that so many of our mothers had to do things that would make a prostitute blush just so we could have a decent life, and yet we want to judge Yendi. This entire episode carries the stench of hypocrisy and demonstrates how quick Jamaicans, living in glass houses, are to cast stones. It appears to me that we have set one standard for Yendi, and another for ourselves and our relatives.
How many of you are having sex out of wedlock right now? Are you prepared to condemn yourself if you become pregnant? We see you. This was a period where psuedo moral dictates relegated some citizens, children at that, to a lower status than others.
That was the era of children being declared illegitimate and therefore having no rights to their father or any hope of an inheritance. In essence that was what happened lastnight on Twitter; we put Yendi and her unborn child in a category for undesirables. The reality is that marriage is not a state everyone wishes to take upon themselves and there is nothing wrong with that.
It does not make that person any less than a married couple. Marriage is no longer the exalted institution of ancient times, it is now a union of convenience in many cases, a transactional affair used to secure financial or immigration benefits and in some cases arranged as a tool to take away the rights and dignity of women. This union is now so relative and varied, can we really elevate it as a standard and judge people for not meeting that standard? We just need to look at the divorce rates all across the world or ask Kim Kardashian or Jennifer Lopez.